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A young man named Roman, 27 years old, with a higher education, contacted me a couple of years ago. He said that over the past 5-6 years he has been experiencing some pressure from his relatives due to the fact that he is still not married and does not have a permanent life partner. After graduating from college, he served in the army and after that, deciding to live separately from his parents, he moved from his small hometown to Voronezh. Here he rents a separate apartment, works and periodically starts relationships with girls, which usually end quickly. Before joining the army, he had a serious relationship that could have ended in marriage, but then he believed that he was not ready for such decisions and it all ended in a breakup. After Roman moved away from his parents, his meetings with them began to be increasingly overshadowed by the fact that they constantly reproached him for not settling down. Due to recent love failures, he began to analyze each of his relationships, both past and present. From this he tried to understand why everything stopped “then” and why it could stop “now”. At the time of our first meeting, he had a girlfriend and was constantly thinking about whether they could start a family together. The question of whether they could be together became obsessive for him. It is not surprising that he soon began to find arguments in favor of them breaking up. It is worth noting that Roman, despite his age and education, has repeatedly turned to the services of cleavers and psychics, which means he is a very suggestible person. In addition, he turned out to be very hypnotizable and often involuntarily fell into a trance. This greatly helped our work, which, as a result of certain circumstances, had to be very short-term. But despite this, at the first session I did not do any serious work with him. I simply tried to teach him to go even deeper into trance, in order to find out how deep he could go in the early stages of our work with him. Also, at the end of the session, I gave him several recommendations in order to better understand whether he should continue the relationship with this girl or not. They were very simple and concerned joint trips to various vacation spots. Only in order to get to know each other better from the spiritual and personal side. Our next meeting turned out to be unplanned and took place on the street. Roman passionately began to talk about how he had broken off relations with his former girlfriend, but on his way he met two others at once. According to him, he often thinks about them and constantly calls them in order to meet with each of them separately. I said that I could meet with him in a week, but for now he would just have to monitor the situation. About a week later we met with him. He talked about how he met two new girls. He liked both of them very much and he didn’t know which one he should focus on. He was also upset that in recent days both of them had been ignoring his calls and offers to meet. This meeting was to be our last meeting for the summer, since I intended to leave the city for a while. Therefore, I decided to carry out the following work with him, which consisted of including the subconscious in the search for a solution to the problem. I began to tell Roman various metaphors about choosing a life partner, about how this could happen completely by accident. How can you live and enjoy this life without engaging in a targeted search? How can one understand that this will happen someday, and someday means in the future. That his future belongs to him and that since this is so, he can take his time and relax and simply get what he had been thinking about for so long. I also suggested that his subconscious resolve this problem within whatever time was necessary, within 7 days or 10. After that, I brought Roman out of his trance and told him about.