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Agree, if you are sincerely inspired by what you do, you are fascinated by the process itself, it fills you with meaning and energy in itself and thereby ensures full return on what you do - how can you get tired of it? It’s like getting tired of the fact that you are breathing. But if behind the obvious meaning there is a non-obvious one, such as: the desire for recognition, satisfaction of self-esteem and ego, the desire to “cut down more” (again, why?) and other similar hidden motives, they then they produce a huge amount of “exhaust gases” that pollute the atmosphere of your movement. To put it literally: when I do something for the sake of doing it, because I can’t help but do it or do something else, I can get tired, upset, despair, feel devalued, and many other emotions. But I can’t burn out from this. If I burn out from something, it means I haven’t achieved the goals I was going for. And they, in turn, were either unconscious, unclear, inadequate or not mine. “Not mine” in this context is very important! I can strive for clear goals, be aware of them, be consistent, persistent and methodical - everything is ok. But burn out. Because the goal itself motivates me, but does not fill me! My own, deep meaning. She was not born by me, naturally inside me and is not my continuation. This means it doesn’t give me the energy to really recover and replenish on the path to its implementation. Whose goals are we not achieving and which ones are we burning out from? These could be the unfulfilled desires of our mother, the desire to prove to our father that you are cooler, to do something opposite - not like it was with them, because “like with them” is very painful. These may be the behests of grandparents, their unspent energy, wasted sacrifices snowball down through generations of those who have long been full, but cannot get enough. Our pain, our traumas, family patterns - all this is an excellent fuel for choosing the wrong direction own life and fertile ground for disappointment and burnout. At constellation sessions, we often set a person’s goal and see how truly a systemic phenomenon it is. A person’s goal unfolds before his eyes in space and time - behind it, or thanks to it, the history of a person and his family and clan is visible. By reading the goal, you can learn a lot about what a person has experienced, what his or her traumatic baggage consists of, and what dynamics are expected in the future. Starting from just one goal, you can come to the deep root themes in a person's life and ask completely new, authentic movement. What should burn out burns out. And in a harmonious life there must be light that illuminates and warms. If you are interested in looking at your goals, work and career or relationships in a systematic constellation approach, I invite you on this journey together.