From the author: A woman’s high self-esteem has a magical effect on men. Self-esteem includes the ability to evaluate one’s strengths and capabilities and to be critical of oneself. It forms the basis of the level of aspirations, that is, the level of those tasks that a person considers himself capable of accomplishing. If a person is fulfilled in what he loves, has achieved high professionalism, and earns good money, he will always be a satisfied individual with high self-esteem. If a person does not grow as a professional in his field, or rushes from one activity to another, he will have low self-esteem (and, accordingly, earnings). If a person has high self-esteem, he will never agree to offers that are unfavorable for him. It is easier for him to negotiate and reach agreements on terms that are favorable to him. High self-esteem has a magical effect on the interlocutor; such people are trusted more and are more likely to agree with them. Self-esteem can be adequate or inadequate. Depending on the nature of self-esteem, a person develops either an adequate attitude towards himself, or an inadequate, incorrect one. Adequate self-esteem contributes to the formation of confidence, self-criticism, perseverance, and demandingness. If it is inadequate, a person is constantly faced with failure, he often enters into conflicts with others. Such self-esteem contributes to the formation of uncertainty and devaluation of one’s achievements; but sometimes it’s the other way around - excessive self-confidence and uncriticality. What affects the REDUCTION OF SELF-ESTEEM? - If your parents underestimated your self-esteem in childhood (they often scolded you, never praised you, or used ridicule at you), did not provide enough unconditional love, acceptance, and support. - Resentment towards oneself, the habit of criticizing oneself destructively. You need to learn to forgive yourself and accept yourself as you are, with all your advantages and disadvantages, with all your mistakes and sins of the past. - All life’s failures and failures, grievances against fate are a burden that pulls our self-esteem down, dropping it below the baseboard. And you need to work with this, be able to forgive, let go of the past, and not dwell on failures. What is HIGH SELF-ESTEEM in terms of FEMININITY? This is when a woman knows how to please a man and uses her knowledge effectively. If a woman has high self-esteem in terms of femininity, a man will not yell or grumble at her. He will strive to reach an agreement. A woman's high self-esteem has a magical effect on men. A man dates such a woman when it is convenient for her. Takes her wherever she wants. He opens the door for her, gives her a coat, etc... A woman with high self-esteem is able to influence her man. Why? BECAUSE HE WANTS IT! She is not afraid to be alone. If she is not satisfied with her relationship with a man, she will break up with him. She is not afraid to live alone. This is even a joy for her, since she can re-read mountains of useful literature, develop new abilities, and work on her beautiful Image. And then get her hair done, put on a beautiful dress, go to a banquet and meet people there, make new interesting acquaintances... She loves to realize herself in many areas of life. She strives to become a professional in her field (or has already become one), knows how to dress herself, put on makeup, and what hairstyle suits her best. He knows how to enhance his strengths and hide his shortcomings - and uses it successfully. Constantly develops her knowledge and skills: communication skills, intelligence (reads a lot), takes care of her health, lives in harmony with herself, is friendly to others, knows how to enjoy life. She knows what she wants and can easily communicate it. Such a woman, using her feminine charisma, will always be attractive! Good luck to you!