“A year and a half ago, when I woke up, I discovered that I had lost my arm. I was very scared, I thought I was having a stroke. Two days later I went to the hospital, my blood pressure was 150/90. After that, a feeling of increased blood pressure began: I could measure 5 times and 180. Within a month At every opportunity I went to the hospital: the therapist, the emergency room. There were additional sensations in the heart area - it stopped! I constantly monitored my heart condition, the cardiogram was normal." A forty-one-year-old man made this request. He is married and has a sixth-grader son. I asked: - How do you measure your blood pressure? - I sit down and measure 130/80. I wait five minutes. I'm measuring. 140/90. I wait another five minutes. 150/100. I am waiting. I measure 170/110. I go to bed to rest. - And if the pressure was normal, then what would they do? I went with my son to study lessons. I think no questions arise. It was beneficial for the man to be sick, just so as not to study lessons with his son. There are people who benefit from being sick, because there will definitely be someone around who will support and care. They don’t go to doctors because they “understand and know nothing about his illness.” Or caring about health is an excuse not to do other things. In fact, not solving your problems and not only with health is beneficial for many. Let's figure out why? Some people like to suffer, so they cannot live without that “The crocodile is not caught, the coconut does not grow. They cry to God, they pray without sparing tears.” They they don’t want to change anything in their life, they have something to cry about, grieve. Having solved their problems, there will be nothing to feel sorry for themselves for and they will not receive support from outside either. Another option for not solving problems is laziness. A person may have a “mass of plans”, but all the time something is missing to implement them life. Either there is no money, then your partner let you down, or it’s the wrong season. He will have a hundred excuses why this is impossible or does not work out. Another factor is self-doubt. Since childhood, a person has been told: “Smart people study at the institute, but you are not smart enough.” “All the actresses are beautiful, but you are a simpleton.” So he is not confident in himself, does not believe in his victory, in his luck. And if he doesn’t try, then it doesn’t work out. Deferred life syndrome, I have time, I’ll have time. I won’t enroll this year. I’ll rest for a year, prepare better, go to school next year. In fact, you can find dozens, hundreds of excuses why not to do something and only one to start taking action - the desire to change your life! You can get an individual consultation by making an appointment at phone number 7 903 373 36 00 (Whats App )