Today I will tell you how people from our environment influence us and convey their fears, stereotypes, limitations and negative scenarios. Here is an example from the life of an old friend of mine who has been practicing for many years. He has excellent results in improving the quality of his Life and yet, sometimes he finds himself in such situations. Description of the situation and question: .....repairs take not only energy, but also money. I spent all my money: it was easier, I don’t like incompleteness.... Zhenya bought a new car and invested his savings there. Enough for a comfortable stay. But I can’t live without the sea, once a year I definitely have to have a full rest at a resort. We’ve already chosen a trip, I decided to take out a small loan: add on the rest, and I need something for a new home. I also counted on money for November, for example, and December. January is vacation. But just yesterday I felt so overwhelmed that I can’t put it into words. I even remember how it happened. I went into the accounting office to say goodbye before leaving home; there was some talk about travel. And one of them says to me: “Think a hundred times, now you’ll rest, but what then? What if we don’t have enough work, and we’ll sit at home, and then what, what will we live on?” I said that we’ll live somehow. But from that moment on, hysteria began inside. These moods always haunt our enterprise in the winter, even more likely in the fall. We are a seasonal enterprise, but the director usually finds ways to pay for our maintenance. I usually don’t give in to these moods, I work for myself and work. And then she gave in. Now I can’t calm down, but I need to buy the tour, take out a loan. But I was already imagining that we would be released in November, etc. etc. How can I stabilize myself? Look around, who is around you? What people? How do they feel? What do they say when communicating with you, what do they do, how do they live? What do they teach you and what example do they set in Life? It is very important to surround yourself with people who are positive, optimistic, and active. From which you can be charged with positive thoughts, moods, plans. Choose your environment consciously. Avoid whiners, victims in life, who complain all the time and blame everyone around for their failures and shift responsibility to anyone. Because thoughts are contagious!!! It's like the flu. And all thoughts are contagious!!! Both negative and POSITIVE!!! Do not allow yourself to be drawn into experiencing negative scenarios. Otherwise, over time, you will become the source and the very object of these experiences. Free yourself from negative thoughts and emotions in a timely manner, because they tend to ACCUMULATE. Regularly put your inner state in order. This is very important both for yourself and for your loved ones. Yes, society influences you, but you also influence society with your state of confidence, thoughts, and actions. Let's learn this together. It's simpler, more interesting and much more effective. Come to a group, study with a specialist or on your own if you are very organized and have enough will to do it. The main thing is to act!