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In ordinary life situations, we often face a choice. It turns out to be a kind of split and loss of action. We analyze, weigh, write PROS and CONS. And we doubt it all the time, it’s scary to make a decision. When there is a choice, there is no self. You don’t know what you want and doubt what you have. Perhaps as a child you often had to choose between mom and dad. This could happen in normal home situations without you even realizing that you were faced with a choice. You were not asked the question: “What do you want?” What does your soul want? Because the soul wants to be with mom and dad, and accept its parents. If you are faced with a choice, you still choose mom or dad. It is important to know: Mom and dad are forever your parents, so it is and will be, no matter what happens between them. For example, in a situation where we choose between two jobs, there is something in each that keeps us in doubt. This means that even now we make a choice, we look for mom and dad in the needs of everyday life, we do not choose ourselves. Our own self is identity. I always know what he wants and where to get it. You just have to listen. Fears and doubts do not allow us into our Self. We begin to analyze where there is more money, look for benefits and again choose someone, but not ourselves. If a person has not formed a stable self, this manifests itself in the difficulties that a person experiences in separation from parents, family, relatives and native places; it is difficult for him to move to the distance necessary for self-development. As a result, “others” forever remain a point of reference for one’s own existence. There is no conscious and confident difference between what a person has experienced himself and what others experience. It is easy for us to make choices when we know and understand: - a healthy self - our own desires - our own sensations and feelings - our own thoughts - our own actions Try see your Self, cultivate your healthy identity. In it we can be ourselves, form relationships that are useful to us, choose what to do.