- “My son is very stubborn,” complains the mother of a 4-year-old child, “he will never agree to do what I ask!” “Well, give in to him,” I say.- What are you talking about? So he will get used to the fact that everyone has to give in to him! - Maybe he won’t get used to it in one go? - No, no! A child needs to be taught to obey from childhood! - What if, thanks to your concession, your son will receive from you a lesson in generosity and flexibility and become like that himself? - No, in this matter you cannot let go of the reins! So we talked... Stubborn children, as a rule, come from stubborn children parents. Communication always occurs on two levels - conscious and unconscious. In this situation, the mother consciously says to the child, “Give in to me!”, and unconsciously (at the level of behavior) demonstrates an extreme degree of intransigence. It's like taking a drag on a cigarette and talking about the dangers of smoking. What will the child believe more: words or deeds? "The Seven Deadly Sins of Parenthood" A book about the main mistakes of parents that can affect the fate of the child